Ruby Falk

MA, LPC

Narrative Therapist | Couples & Relationship Specialist |
Straight-Shooter 🎯 | (She/Her)

Meet Ruby: Couples Therapist in Denver

If you find yourself continually frustrated with your partner, withdrawing from them, or stuck in the same argument, you’re in the right place. 

I specialize in guiding couples and new parents to improve communication, rekindle intimacy, navigate the complexities of infertility, and maintain a healthy, loving relationship.

With a straightforward, no-nonsense approach, I create an expansive space for you to explore communication blocks, work through unspoken expectations, and reclaim connection—especially during life’s most important moments.

SERVING WOMEN & COUPLES IN COLORADO
Online & In-Person

OFFICE HOURS
MONDAY - THURSDAY
10:00am - 4:00pm

RATES & INSURANCE
Therapy: $175 per 50-min individual session | $200 per 50-min couples session

Insurance: Out-of-network

Ruby Specializes In

Couples Therapy

Relationships

Parenthood Journey

Grief & Loss

Ruby’s Story

Couples Therapist in Denver

Whether you’re addressing differences in intimacy needs or rediscovering your connection after bringing home a baby, I help couples move past challenges and into authentic understanding. We’ll dive into the roots of the conflict and work toward meaningful change, with both parties feeling heard, understood, and moving towards a solution.   

What my clients enjoy most about my approach is providing research-backed strategies to offer immediate relief, alongside deeper exploration to shift the long-standing patterns that hinder intimacy and connection.

As a mother of two young children, I understand the unrealistic expectations placed on women when they become parents. I provide compassionate, no-BS guidance to help you release harmful expectations and embrace who you are meant to be as parents and partners.

Ruby’s Qualifications

  • Licensed Professional Counselor

  • Master of Arts in Counseling from the University of Colorado at Denver.

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How Does Couples Therapy Work?

Relationships often reflect the deeper stories we tell ourselves. Using Narrative Therapy, I guide clients in understanding how societal messages and personal experiences shape their interactions. We’ll uncover unspoken beliefs that may make connection with your partner difficult, stall communication, or complicate expressing your needs.

With training in the Gottman Method, I offer practical, research-backed tools to help couples address a range of challenges and build a solid foundation of trust and mutual understanding.

With a background in sales and non-profit fundraising, I’ve learned how to be direct, ask uncomfortable questions, handle rejection, and sit in discomfort right alongside you.

Building Healthy Relationships: How I Can Support You

  • Emotional Differences

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    When one partner is more emotionally expressive or available than the other, or when your love languages differ.

  • Communication Struggles

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    Building skills to express yourself clearly, kindly, and actively listen.

  • (Re)Connection After Parenthood

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    Addressing the common loss of intimacy and connection that arises after having children.

  • Role Discrepancies

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    Balancing differing expectations around partnership roles, including the division of labor and the impact of societal expectations.

  • Grief & Loss

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    Remaining a team when one–or both–experiences a loss, or when you are at different stages of grief.

  • Navigating Fertility Journey

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    Ensuring you feel trust, closeness, and safety as you navigate your path to parenthood.

Therapy for New Parents

I support couples as they adjust to the new demands of parenthood, and help them address struggles around division of labor, postpartum stressors, and changes in physical or emotional intimacy.

Becoming a parent changes everything–yet your partnership or marriage might be the last thing to adapt. I’ll help you update–and even reinvent–your relationship so you can step into this new stage of your relationship stronger than ever. 

Whether you're struggling to divide caregiving responsibilities or feel that your relationship has taken a back seat to your new child, I offer a safe space to share these concerns and provide tangible ways to strengthen your bond and rekindle intimacy.

Building Healthy Relationships with Ruby

Through couples therapy, you can gain clarity in your personal life, strengthen your relationships, and find support as you grow together as parents.

As an Individual
- Feel more empowered in relationships
- Break unhelpful patterns and cycles
- Effectively communicate wants and needs  

As a Partner/Spouse
- Renew connection and intimacy with your partner
- Apply practical tools for managing stress and conflict
- Experience a greater sense of unity and partnership 

As a Parent
- Prioritize intimacy and connection as co-parents
- Divide labor equitably in the relationship
- Create a stronger, more resilient co-parenting team

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 Get Started with Ruby Today

If you’re ready to dive into the real work of improving your relationship or adjusting to life as new parents, schedule a session with me at Discover Peace Within. Ruby is here to support you in peeling back the layers of your story, strengthening your bond, and building a fulfilling partnership.